Tuesday, 1 December 2015

The trip of my life- Cambodia

South East Asia

Cambodia

I landed first in Bangkok, Thailand and spent 2 days there and off I went to Cambodia. So I booked a bus directly from Bangkok to Siem Reap, where Angor War (largest temple complex in the world) is. Before coming there, I didn’t know much about Cambodia, but for some reason I always wanted to go there and explore the country. I knew it’s a Buddhist country and I really expected something that would inspire me and give me a different view on things. I’m officially a Christian but realistically I’m leaning more towards eastern religions like Buddhism and Daoism. Although all religions have very similar core teachings and want the good for everyone and show you a way to a better life. So I don’t believe in any particular religion, but I try to keep an open mind and explore myself deeper and see what fits me.


Siem Reap by night
Bar street

TIP 1: Never book a direct bus from Bangkok to Siem Reap and don’t book with the hostel/hotel even if the person at the hostel is super-hot! There is also a huge scam at the border of Thailand/Cambodia. Basically they take you to the border, sit you down somewhere and they tell you they will arrange the visa for you. They charge you 50% more than the actual price. To avoid this, you simply walk to the border, do it in 5 min and walk to the other side. If you decide you will do it by yourself, so don’t forget to take the receipt with you, the one that states you payed all the way to Siem Reap…If they take it from you, you will be stranded on the other side (like me). If you have a receipt you will be taken to a bus stop and from there you will continue the journey, if not you will have to pay. They took my receipt and I got stranded on the other side, but got to the bus station and payed a little for a ride to Siem Reap (It was still cheaper than paying 50% more for the visa). I recommend you buy a ticket to the border and then buy another ticket from the border to Siem Reap and you will save a lot of money. I payed around 25 EUR for a direct ticket, if you buy them separately it would be around 10 to 15 EUR.  Going back, it costs around 6 EUR for 2 separate tickets! AT THE BORDER BE CAREFUL OF SOME SCAMS, LIKE EXCHANGING MONEY, BUYING THINGS, …

When taking a bus in Cambodia, don’t expect comfort and don’t expect to sleep, because for some reason they love to blast their music loud, and it’s a type of music only a native could love, but the first couple of videos will make laugh so hard you will be getting a good AB workout! It’s around 6h drive from the border to Siem Reap and like most Cambodia buses, they will leave you outside of the city and make you take a Tuk Tuk (local three-wheeler with the driver that usually doesn’t speak English) for an extra 1, 2$. Finding the place to stay is quite easy, just ask a person who can speak English where is a cheap place and he will usually take you there for his cut. Of course you only stay if the price is right and if it's similar or cheaper than other places. So I stayed in a backpacker area where there are many different hostels and hotels. On the road towards Siem Reap you already notice that it’s much poorer than Thailand. Some roads will not be paved and houses on the side of the road are made from bamboo or some other wood and sometimes raised a couple of feet just in case of flooding. The city of Siem Reap is quite small, the city center is very touristy and pricey as well. Most people there can speak English and it’s easy to find anyone to help you around. Streets are mostly paved in the center and once you go a little outside they are covered with red sand and gravel.


Angor War

TIP: I recommend always buying a SIM card in every country you visit in SE Asia, it will make life much easier and comfortable. I do it so I never have to worry about anything, no matter what problem you have, google will know the solution and not worrying on a trip about anything will make your trip much more enjoyable and focused on the more important things!

Angor War temple is around 6km from the city center and if you rent a bicycle in the city you can get around the temples quite well. Usually most visitors enter the temples around 5, 6 am to see the sunset over the temples, I didn’t because it was a foggy day and there was nothing to see, but I did get there at 6:30. The size of the temple is huge, but the whole temple area is enormous and impossible to cover everything within a day.  Luckily I had a bicycle and strolled around the temples going in and out the whole day. When getting to the main one Angor War you really start to notice how extremely big it is and this one is well maintained as well. Obviously the place is famous when you have local tourist guides that speak all kind of languages (Chinese, Spanish, French, Russian, …).  Once you see the main one the others in comparison are nothing special and fell short to my expectations, of course each has their own little specialty and an interesting story. 





Angor War and around

After hours of walking and cycling you slowly get a little tired, but luckily there are a couple of small villages next to the ruins where you will find decent food which is slightly overpriced. I would also recommend you to see the temple where “Tomb Rider” the movie was shot or the temple where the trees roots grow all over a wall of a temple. Once again you will be amazed by the power of nature! People working there seems very nice and were willing to chat and communicate so their days would go by faster, it was nice talking with them as well!

At Angor War temples

One of the most important things when I travel are people! For me all these fancy, important places don’t really matter, but people and their hearts will really tell you what a place is like and how life there is. I was really disappointed with the people in Cambodia. Not only do you always have to bargain for every single thing, but you also have to be careful who you talk to, because they might take you somewhere and sell you something. They have separate bus stations for foreigners, special menus and prices in restaurants, people are really cold and like to make fun of foreigners, Tuk tuk’s try to get a lot of money from you, so be careful how much you pay. I would advise you to browse a little earlier and see how much it usually is and what scams they have (if you have a SIM card it takes you 30 min and you will save a lot of money). I met this British couple which got scammed so many times it was really sick and they told me how much they had to pay for certain things and were approached by scammers and payed 10, 15x more than others. Be sure to bargain and fight for a good price, they are counting on you to feel bad about them and they will make sure to use it. Well I did meet some nice locals a little later, but while I was in the tourist places it’s really bad!

I didn’t hangout too much in the city center and I didn’t feel like hanging out with other foreigners too much at the beginning of my trip, mostly because I didn’t want to be a foreigner but I wanted to blend in more with the locals. The next day my ATM card got swollen in the ATM and I had to deal with that, even if it was a little of a hassle I still found it quite interesting and fun to deal with that. Unfortunately, I couldn’t get it back the same day but in a week when I was back in Siem Riep.  Luckily I still had my credit card I could withdraw from.

I decided next I will head to Battabang, a city 3h from Siem Riep by bus. I didn’t take a boat which is popular by the tourists since I didn’t want to spend the whole day on a boat doing nothing, so I took the bus and was in battabang by 12h. There are many things you can see the there: like see the bat caves (see thousand bats fly out every day around 6p.m.), take bamboo train, see a couple of temples, explore the city and their markets. I decided I will skip the bats flying out and try to see the bamboo train and explore a couple of temples outside with a bicycle and I also saw a crocodile farm. The bamboo train experience was OK, slightly ruined by locals trying to get 10 instead of 5$ from you, riding in a bamboo train with a dry, lemon mouth Germans and the lady who was driving the bamboo train was really in a hurry. After all, it was still a really nice experience and you get to ride on the train tracks which are really crooked and bouncy, since there is only one train track when people from the other side go you have to dismantle your “train” and then assemble it again later. Really cool J


The bamboon train




Villages around Battambang

Going to see the temples

After the bamboo train I rented a motorcycle and went to see the city a little bit, stumbled on a crocodile farm on the edge of a city where you could see hundreds of crocodiles being fed and them jumping and fighting for food was quite a unique experience. I also liked that the farm wasn’t touristy and you could get the real authentic feeling. Driving to this temple 10 km from the city was an even cooler experience, because on the way you see really local houses and stop in their little home stores where they hang everything out to be seen like underwear. People there were also smiling when they saw me and some kids even waved as I was passing by. Seeing the kids there being raised in such poverty, made me think how lucky I was that I grew up where I was and I always had everything and more, but was too greedy to know realize it at that time! Close to the temples you saw a huge construction of a really wide road, it was being made by Chinese so they could develop the infrastructure (some might say, they built the road where they are planning to have a huge company in order to make it more accessible). Many food carts and small diners were built to serve food for the workers and the views were amazing with rice fields going until the eye could see. The temples themselves were nothing special, but I did meet a group of students there whose English wasn’t so good. One guy told me the story about how hard the conditions in Cambodia are, that even with the bachelor in Electronics it’s almost impossible to find a job or find an employment. The only option is to go to the capital, but the fear of leaving your parents behind is too much. So to fulfill the parents’ wishes he stay in the city and works another job he doesn’t like to satisfy their parents. In Asia there are many stories similar to this one and sometimes more heartbreaking. Family for a lot of Asians is really important and kids make sure their parents are very well off and that they are proud of their kids! Kids in return sacrifice a lot, even their happiness. From my experience I could understand their point of view and being in China I understand why this happens and why family is so important! I love that and one day I want to have a family that is so close as well, however I will want my family to be free and live as it makes them happy. After coming back at night I walked around the city center and enjoyed looking at the locals doing their normal routine. Most of them at chatting in the park, exercising on the machines, typical Chinese square dancing (grandmothers dancing on the square) and eat food from the vendors on the street. Next morning, I took a small stroll around the town and headed to the capital Phnom Penh.

TIP: Always take at least two cards with you, you don’t want to sleep on the street like I did in London!

Phnom Penh is the capital of Cambodia and in my opinion by far the most developed city, the city center and the suburbia are both paved and like many other capitals are full of tall buildings. You don’t need to look much until you find the Cambodian feeling in the city, like the street markets where everything possible is being sold, local eateries, and small shops. The royal palace and the city center by the river is where most of the tourist spots are. After a little thought I decided to rent a motorcycle without a proper license in hand. I read a lot about not driving with a license in SE Asia and I wanted to take a small risk to see what the real country side has to offer and of course I got a normal city bike. I decided I’ll dress up like the locals, which meant wearing loose pants. T-shirt and a wind proof jacket with a helmet. I actually blended in nicely and all those police officers on the way out of the city didn’t even give me one look. 


Phnom Penh at night

Royal palace in Phnom Penh

Traffic in the capital

It was a little scary riding a small motorcycle on the road with huge trucks and cars driving like crazy. After an hour of driving you get used to the system and the way things are done on the road. I road all the way down south to the beach Krong Kampot where I had my early dinner. I love the fruit Durian and the city Kampot has a huge Durian statue, which was the coolest thing ever. There were some really nice beaches on both side of the river, but I was in a hurry to get so Sihanouk which was another 100km west. Little did I know that road was 90 km going up on the hills and since my city motorcycle wasn’t meant to go more than 150km, I decided this had to be done. Going up the hills and looking at locals relaxing by the road and chatting, rice fields on one side and hills on the other. Simply stunning and enjoyed every moment of it…until dark came and my head light stopped working! Of course it wasn’t helping to know that I didn’t have any place reserved. What did I do? I stopped and rested my motorcycle, downloaded the flashlight APP on the phone and when it downloaded I drove with one hand and held the phone with the other! Luckily I somehow found this little town where a local helped me find a place to stay, of course it was the most expensive place I stayed in, but It was a place to stay! As always I love a little challenge and when you succeed you feel like on top of the world! FINDING YOUR OWN WAY OUT OF TROUBLE IS THE MOST REWARDING!
Temple on the road









Rice fields

Then next day I picked up some breakfast at the local store (this means a place where there are 50 things on display and it’s by the road) and went to this beautiful beach that was completely deserted! Only a couple of more miles and I reached Sihanouk where I chilled for the whole day. The small town is quite touristy with many beaches and tours to the close islands. I decided not to go to an island since I’m not a big buff of beautiful beaches, resting for a long time and spending 40 EUR on a return boat ticket, for that much money I can get a much better deal in other countries. It definitely payed off, because I found this little beach that was a backpacker’s place that was completely chilled, 3EUR a night and I spend the majority of the afternoon drinking beer by the beach and laying in a hammock reading a book, just what I needed after a long drive with the motorcycle! The next day I started early and did 250km before 2pm and had the whole day in the capital. I have to say that this motorcycle experience was the best thing i did. Not only because you can go and do whatever you want, but more importantly it gives you freedom to roam to places where there are no tourists and communicate with locals, get to know how they are like, what places the recommend and let you be shocked by all the amazing places are out there without us even knowing! It might have been only 3 days, but it made me realize that I have to get a motorcycle license, get a bike and do many more tours in my life! After spending a relaxing afternoon going around town talking to random strangers and meeting a bunch of really nice people I decided to book a night bus to Siem Reap so I could get back my bank card that the ATM swallowed and of course after an hour or so I got my card and got out of Cambodia as soon as I could!

Markets in the capital
On the road again

Kids I met
Capital

I decided I’ll visit three Buddhist countries in SE Asia (Cambodia, Thailand and Myanmar) first and to see how different things are. For some reason I knew Cambodia most and it was a long time wish to one-day travel in Cambodia. Damme was I wrong, I came there hoping to be stunned by the beautiful places, genuine people, new interesting religion and kindness, instead I got harassed by almost everyone there (I guess they saw me as an ATM on legs, don’t get me wrong I love to bargain but this was just way above that), got sent to special foreign bus stations to take more expensive transportation, had separate menus, food was not that good and I didn’t even smell a hit of people abiding by the Buddhism principles. However, once I went alone with a motorcycle I met more locals and went to not so touristy places where things changed for better and I saw people helping each other and some even approach me. Cambodia left me with a bad after taste, now let’s see how Thailand and Myanmar do?!

TIP: I do recommend to do some research on scams and how much certain things should cost before coming to Cambodia. You should not be worried about your safety, but again don’t show off. If you are looking for a true experience, I would tell you to either go to the South or I heard that East side is also a very good option. I heard from many people that Laos is also I country everyone should visit!

Next stop is Thailand

Thursday, 26 November 2015

The trip of my life- Beginning (SZ, HK and Macau)

THE TRIP OF MY LIFE!!


10 weeks, 11 countries (including HK, Macao and Taiwan), million memories and one life changing experience! Let’s start!

Places I’ve been in 10 weeks!

This was the trip I always wanted to make and wished for since I arrived in Asia. The whole trip was quite a big coincidence and I didn’t even plan to see this many countries! My plan was to take a trip around China for 2 months and then do one month around Myanmar and Korea. Due to my boss’s wife sudden change of heart and her revoking my Visa I didn’t have an option then to leave China. THIS WAS THE BEST THING THAT COULD HAVE HAPPENED!! Even if I really wanted to travel around China and more know more about different places in China, but the things I learned on this journey will be with me my whole life and It changed me from the inside! So I will thank her for revoking my visa! Life is full of signs, sometimes you just have to let go, not resist and go where it takes you. Since my plans changed in the last week I had to do my whole trip planning all over, so what did I do? I booked a train ticket to HK and from Macau to Bangkok. And decided that that is the only thing I need to reserve and the rest will come as it should! Of course I had to see all the friends in different places in Asia, like my Philippine, Korean and Taiwanese friends! Everything else was a mystery and that scared me, I didn’t know what will happen, how it will happen. I live for adventure, change and to be happy, that’s how life should be! Fuck the comfort zone we are living in our whole life. Time to explore!

I will not go into the deep things (what I discovered about life, myself and how to find true happiness), that is reserved for a different blog. I don’t believe in forcing my believes on others and here I’ll just scratch the surface of these and focus more on the experience, traveling tips for these places and things I saw and what I learned on the way. My style of traveling is really basic, very budget oriented, oriented towards people and culture and so less towards taking beautiful and amazing photos, all about the experience and doing things I haven’t done yet!

THE BEGINNING (Shenzhen, China)

I left Ningbo, China on the July 14th, 2015 and headed towards Shenzhen where I met up with my close friend and spend the day exploring the old city to find something a little different. Every time I travel with Aki, my close friend, I always end up doing something I would have never imagined and as you guessed it, this time wasn’t any different! We went to see some big park where we found a “winter hall” with an ice ring and winter wonderland hall with ice sculptures, ice slides and snow ball fighting arena! I mean could have things been any better?! It was really hot outside and for the first time I was carrying my huge backpack, and when we saw that, it was like a sign from above. Ohhh did we have fun, like anytime with her, I felt like a kid again and it’s a really great feeling. This is why she means so much to me, because she showed me that sometimes you have to find the child inside and just let it go! 

We spent the afternoon roaming around and looking at random sightseeing things in the center and of course the focus being on finding a really awesome place to eat (Only in Asia)! After some good food, durian shakes and cakes we slowly set our way to Hong Kong.
TIP: Shenzhen (SZ) is a city in China which boarders Hong Kong (HK) and you can easily take a subway to downtown Hong Kong. Both HK and SZ speak Cantonese a lot of HK’s go there to party, shop or just walk around to get better deals on things and enjoy the cheaper things in China!

Me in the skating arena

Aki in her winter clothes
Ice arena

Show slide
Backpack and I
Aki and her sun umbrella

Hong Kong

During my stay in China I probably visited Hong Kong 4, 5 times for different reasons and I went from a hater to a lover of the place. First two times I came it was because I had to take care of my visa issues, in order to get my working visa in China. And so I usually stayed for 2, 3 days doing the visa issues, sightseeing and hanging out with my friends there. I didn’t like it at the beginning, because of the fast way of living and it’s just too crowded, that’s coming from a guy who has been living in China (haha)! People seem to always be in a hurry and running everywhere, apartment buildings are one on top of the other, and mostly because I had serious visa issues! I also missed my flight back to Ningbo the second time I was there. Not a good start at all!! Third and fourth time I didn’t go for Visa things anymore, but because I wanted to surprise my friend for his birthday and once just to relax! Once you are outside of the crowded city, it’s is simply stunning and amazing to explore different islands and finding that HK is actually an amazing place with everything you need. You have amazing hills overlooking the island only 40min bus ride from the city center (Dragon’s back), many island which have their own purpose and you are also able to see the true locals in their natural habitat since beaches are 30,40 min from the city center with many BBQ places and sport parks. The outside of the city is really what makes this place so special and memorable. Of course there are things in the city that are nice as well, not mentioning the narrow alleys with shining sings hanging on every possible fixable thing, city promenade, old city markets, old temples and buildings, amazing food and an interesting fusion of Chinese and British culture.

View from the Promenade
A park in HK

HK streets at night


View from the Dragon’s back

TIP: HK is a really easy city to get around, subways & buses & trams can take you almost everywhere and It’s the easiest to buy an Octopus card and top it up in every 7eleven or subway station. For me the majority of interesting things are outside of the city, that’s where you can spend a relaxing or sports colored day and enjoy the people and culture during the night! I strongly advise you not to talk about the issues with China and what they think (except if they are your good friends). There are a lot of mixed feelings on this topic and from my experience people from HK have this blind faith that China is bad and nothing good can come from them. Those Chinese living in HK are also treated as less than locals. Having said this, people from HK are really nice, polite and warmhearted towards foreigners. As a foreigner you will bland very well in this International city!

Getting back to my trip! After getting back to HK we went our separate ways and I found myself a place to stay, the following couple of days I spend mostly being with Aki, met my other friends and just enjoying the life in HK. Waking up in the morning, taking a walk to 7eleven and grabbing something to eat, heading out into the city, walking around the really tall buildings, feeling like a small ant, taking a coffee to go and just observing the people around me. I also met with a good friend Lu, with whom I’m looking to maybe do some business one day. He was my closest friend in Reims and is also a very cool person! It was also really nice seeing all my friends again and enjoying some time with them, they are super nice and kind to me. One of my German friends also joined us, she always had a dream to go and work in HK and she finally did. I’m really proud of people who have their goals and will follow them until they come true!!
Next I took a ferry from HK to Macau (a small “country” on the other side of HK). Leaving this place was much harder than expecting since this meant also leaving China. With time I found myself really connected with China and HK and leaving was like leaving a part of me behind. The freedom and memories I have accumulated will luckily always be with me and this is what matters, but I knew there was something more out there!

Typical HK breakfast with Dim sum

Amazing Chocolate ice-shaven ice-cream
City streets of HK


My friends and I

Special HK desserts
Big Buddha

HK skyline
My friends from Hawaii and HK

Aki and I

Macau


Macau is officially “a city of China” and it’s mostly known as the gambling city. Gambling in China is forbidden, so they have this little haven to use as their gambling place. Macau used to be a Portugal colony and people residing there have both a Macau passport as well as the Portuguese one. The city is really small and one part is mostly filled with casinos while the other part has the old square, a famous building everyone takes pictures in front and apartment buildings around. The main tourist places are really nicely built and well maintained but once you step a little out of these borders you will see a lot of torn down buildings and basically not well maintained apartments. After all it’s a nice place to spend a day or a nice getaway from HK. I never had an intention to visit Macau, but since the plane ticket from Macau was much cheaper than from HK, of course I couldn’t miss the opportunity to explore a little. They also have a famous pastry, which btw is very similar to the ones we have in Europe. Chinese ones are not as nearly as good as these!

The famous building
City center

Casinos

The old apartment buildings
Art street




City center


The famous Portuguese dessert


From Macau I flew to my next station and the true beginning of my SE Asian tour!
The Buddhist trio fallows....